What do you believe to be true about love?
Does love hurt?
Should you show love no matter what?
Do you deserve love?
Do others give up on love too easily?
Do you?
What should love feel like?
Is love an obligation?
Is love frightening?
Is love hard?
Should love be easy?
Do you believe there is one soul mate out there for you?
Does love bring happiness?
What are your beliefs about love?
(Take a second to really answer that question.)
Now, look at your love life...
I promise you... in fact, I'd be willing to bet everything I own... that your love life is a direct reflection of what you believe to be true about love.
If you believe that love takes a lot of hard work, requires a lot of compromise and doesn't last forever, then it would be a safe assumption that you are either in a relationship that is difficult or you've recently ended a relationship leaving you with those beliefs.
If you believe love is easy, fun, and exciting, chances are you are in a relationship that reflects it, or are looking for one that will reflect it and won't settle for less.
Our lives are a direct reflection of our beliefs.
And love is just one area of your life.
We have many beliefs about every part of our lives.
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